Well, times are changing. I no longer have three nappers. Jack is the only one who takes a nap anymore, so he is really the only one we tip-toe around while sleeping. The other two are notallowed to take naps anymore, even if they could really use one, because just a few minutes of shut-eye causes them to be awake far too long after bedtime. It really is amazing how just a half hour nap causes them to loose hours of nighttime sleep.
So while we still have this rule in our house, I make exceptions when the big boys fall asleep in the middle of the day. I allow them to sleep for just a bit (obviously, they are in need of a little rest if they fall asleep on their own, despite their best efforts not to sleep) but not only do I wake them up after only the briefest of rests, I don't require a quiet atmosphere around them either. In fact, I often enlist the help of the other boys to wake the sleeping one.
While always grumpy towards their mom or dad for waking them before they are ready, they rarely get mad if I allow Jack to work his magic on them, and Jack just can't resist a sleeping brother! I think he thinks it is a good game of peek-a-boo or something. Whatever his reasons, he loves to play with them most when they are asleep. He climbs on them, snuggles them, rolls over them, pulls their hair, slobber-kisses them, and just laughs and babbles throughout the entire waking up process.
Look at their faces. This is not the look or response I get when I wake him on my own.